Planning your big day and not sure where to start? Let me make it simple: it all begins with the venue. And when it comes to variety and elegance, Long Island wedding locations are tough to beat.
As a New York wedding planner, I’ve seen it all—and Long Island always delivers. From vineyards to beachfronts to grand estates, there’s a perfect spot for every couple and style.
Keep reading for my favorite Long Island wedding locations (plus a few gems just beyond). And if you're ready to work with a wedding planner who knows the area inside and out, I’d love to hear from you.
Beachfront Elegance: Long Island Wedding Locations That Bring the Coastal Glam
If you’re all about sand, sea breeze, and romance, you’re in luck—Long Island wedding locations have some of the most stunning beachfront venues around.
Top Picks on Long Island:
Gurney’s Montauk – Iconic oceanfront views, high-end service, and the perfect mix of luxury and beachy charm.
Oceanbleu, Westhampton Beach – Picture sweeping dunes, a seaside ceremony, and a reception with serious Hamptons flair.
Venturing Beyond:
Bonnet Island Estate (New Jersey) – A private coastal escape with its own charming chapel and bay views.
Saybrook Point Resort & Marina (Connecticut) – Waterfront elegance with classic New England style.
Beach weddings can feel effortless, but they do require careful planning—especially with unpredictable weather. A seasoned wedding planner (hi, that’s me!) can help you navigate permits, backup plans, and everything in between.
Classic Estates and Mansions: Timeless Long Island Wedding Locations
If your Pinterest is packed with grand staircases and garden glam, Long Island’s historic estates will definitely steal your heart.
Standout Long Island Venues:
Oheka Castle – Nothing says opulence like a literal castle. This French-style chateau is iconic for a reason.
Bourne Mansion – Waterfront views, sprawling lawns, and dramatic indoor spaces—it’s regal without being stuffy.
Elegant Alternatives Outside Long Island:
The Wadsworth Mansion (Connecticut) – A stately home with a storied history and beautiful grounds.
Tarrytown House Estate (Hudson Valley) – Classic architecture meets modern amenities, perfect for a weekend wedding escape.
These Long Island wedding locations bring more than just beauty—they come with built-in elegance. The setting does the heavy lifting, and your guests will feel like royalty from the moment they arrive.
Rustic Charm: Vineyard & Barn Long Island Wedding Locations for the Romantics
For couples who love the idea of string lights, wooden beams, and a more laid-back (but still stunning) setting, Long Island’s North Fork and countryside areas have you covered.
Charming Long Island Spots:
Bedell Cellars – A working vineyard with a dreamy ceremony lawn and killer wine, naturally.
The Barn at Old Bethpage – A beautifully restored barn with a warm, rustic feel and plenty of space to dance the night away.
Other Rustic Favorites:
Red Maple Vineyard (Hudson Valley) – Gorgeous views, on-site wine, and serious fairy tale vibes.
The Farm at Glenwood Mountain (New Jersey) – Pastoral charm and mountain views without needing to head too far north.
When going rustic, don’t overlook logistics like transportation and weather. Vineyard weddings especially benefit from a planner to coordinate vendors, timing, and keep guests from wandering off in the vines.
Modern Chic: Sleek Long Island Wedding Locations with a City Vibe
If you’re into clean lines, industrial vibes, and a modern edge, Long Island wedding locations offer plenty of chic options without skimping on style.
Trendy Long Island & Nearby Venues:
The Foundry (Long Island City) – Exposed brick, ivy-covered walls, and a rooftop with skyline views. What more could you want?
The Loft by Bridgeview – Modern interiors with waterfront views and flexible event spaces.
City Chic Alternatives:
Tribeca Rooftop (NYC) – Iconic Manhattan views and a sleek, polished setting.
Prospect Park Boathouse (Brooklyn) – A beautiful blend of classic architecture and city charm.
Modern venues are perfect for couples who want to personalize every detail—lighting, florals, and custom touches all shine in these sleek, flexible spaces.
Still venue hunting? I’ve rounded up even more of my favorite Long Island spots in this blog post— check it out here.
What to Consider When Choosing Between Long Island Wedding Locations
Before you fall in love with a venue (and trust me, you will), take a step back and think about a few key logistics:
Guest Count – Some venues are more intimate, others can host hundreds. Know your estimated guest list before you tour.
Indoor vs. Outdoor Preferences – Think about what vibe you want, but also consider weather contingencies.
Accessibility – How easy is it for guests (especially out-of-towners) to get to your venue? Is there nearby lodging?
These details can make or break the guest experience—and the planning process. Which brings me to…
Why a Wedding Planner Makes All the Difference
Long Island wedding locations are dreamy—but finding the right one can feel overwhelming. A planner helps match your style and budget, while handling the behind-the-scenes details so you can focus on the fun.
Bonus: we’ve got the inside scoop on hidden gems, fast-booking spots, and ways to make your budget go further without compromising your vision.
The Right Long Island Wedding Location Sets the Stage for Everything
Once you find the venue, everything else falls into place—your style, your florals, even the flow of the day. With so many Long Island wedding locations to choose from, there's one that’s just right for you.
Beachfront, vineyard, or modern city vibe—there’s a perfect match waiting. Not sure where to start? Let’s chat—I’ll help you find the place where your forever begins.
